I’m convinced that things like to go to shit as soon as I feel like I’ve got it under control. I have about five different problems coming to a head all at once (the details of which can be found on my personal blog) and I think that crawling under a rock sounds like a good idea right about now. Cripes. No new posts for a while unless I’m looking for an escape from reality for a moment. If any of my readers happen to be loaded, I’ll gladly accept monetary donations of $5000 or more to assist in my straightening out of this crap.
Edit: The comment about money was written in a haze of anger and was meant as an indicator of how much money I’m going to be out once everything is said and done, not counting any additional student loans. I do not actually want you guys to send me money. Unless you really are a millionaire, in which case send as much as you want. Thanks much.
I would if I could…
That was more of a sarcastic way of indicating how much this is going to cost me once it’s all said and done. Plus, possibly another 10-15 grand in student loans so I can fucking graduate. Cripes. If I was a millionaire I’d find all of my server bloggers and go eat in their section. Then I’d leave them a big-ass tip. I’m talking thousands of dollars. Not only would that server be fucking thrilled, but everyone there that night would instantly have an awesome unbelievable story about the girl that came in and dropped money like rats drop turds.
So…some of this is ID theft? That sucks hairy donkey balls. If someone stole my ID, I think it would actually improve my bank account and credit score.
Sorry about the run of bad luck.
My ID was stolen 3 years ago and that caused problems for me but this time it’s my SSN. Much worse.
Don’t hide if there’s nothing you can do!! I’ve been hiding from some shit I’ve needed to deal with for awhile too and running into money problems myself at the moment.
It’ll pass! At least that’s what I’ve been telling myself…
I’m not having money problems per se, but money sure would alleviate all of my current problems. I can’t do much about the ID theft…just wait and let other people investigate and determine what the fuck is going on. Can’t do much about school except take another fucking semester with a 10-15 grand price tag, which will of course be taken out in student loans. By the way, we already have $100 grand in student loans once you consider my husband’s loans too. It’s not that I can run and hide, it’s just that there are no other options than to sit and wait. At least if I could be actively doing something I could feel like I can get through it. But since I can’t do anything I feel like I’m at the mercy of whatever happens. I’m not used to being at the mercy of anyone but me.
Hope things mellow out, I totally feel you.
I hope so too. I was feeling murderous yesterday morning. By evening I had crumbled into tears of despair. Today the crying continued a little bit after work. Now I’m just kind of sitting here with the biggest what-the-fuck-ever-i-don’t-care-and-the-world-can-fuck-itself-with-a-rake attitude that I’m sure will persist through my next dumb fucking semester that I shouldn’t have to take because the registrar is a damn fool.
I really do feel for you. I’m having a bad financial spell myself thanks to new taxes, increased university fees, and a thieving bastard with a fake taxi plate who stole some very expensive equipment that I saved a whole year to buy, so I can completely sympathize.
All I can say is keep your chin up, don’t lose your head, and don’t be afraid to ask for help or advice; you can figure out a way to make things work out as long as you don’t give up.
Ouch, I’m sorry that your equipment was stolen. That was probably heartbreaking since you saved up for so long.
I’m sure things will work out, it’s just the process that will be painful.